What has to happen to make giving valuable? Giving only has worth if it costs you something. That is why when things come easy to people or are given to them some don’t care about them or place value on them. Because how they got it or who gave it to them placed no value on it. When you give to anyone your cost and their value are you putting them in front of yourself. Just as Jesus paid the cost on the cross when he gave his life to save you which is priceless.
What has to happen to make giving valuable? (love, care, consideration, understanding, empathy, honesty, patience, affection, compassion, attention, prayer, selflessness, respect, trust, sympathy forgiveness, and sacrifice)
Do nothing from rivalry or conceit but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.